Do you ever wonder why you’re always meeting mr wrong or you can never afford that designer handbag you really wanted? Sometimes we get stuck into a trap of making the wrong decisions and don’t know how to step back and make life changes for the better. If you want to change but you’re not sure how I’m here to give you that proverbial kick up the butt.
Don’t date someone for the sake of it
If you’re just not that into him – because he’s tight – a mummy’s boy – or you just didn’t click – don’t keep dating him just because you don’t want to be alone. It’s better to wait and try find someone that you really want to be with. Remember it’s Mr right not Mr Right Now.
Don’t work yourself to extremes
Whilst it’s fine to put in a bit of extra work to achieve that much wanted promotion, you really shouldn’t work yourself into the ground. If you’ve made plans with your friends, family or date don’t cancel just because you feel you need to impress at work. Your social life is just as vital as your career if not more important to keep your physical and mental health stress free and happy.
I can’t save
Can you really not save or would you rather just spend the money on something else? If you really want that designer bag, dress or even a deposit for a flat you will need to make sacrifices. Instead of buying that daily coffee or lunch put the money aside into your savings pot.
Tackle the things you hate
If there’s something in life you really don’t like it’s up to you to work out what it is and change it. Whether you hate your job, your flat sucks or you wish you were thinner the only person that can make a difference is you. Believe me you’ll feel better for it.
Don’t be a yes person
Whilst it’s great to be social and enjoy time with friends and family, sometimes it’s good just to have me time. If you’d rather watch the Latest episode of Peaky Blinders then spend all night on the lash then don’t be afraid to say no. You’re just as important as the other people in your life.